I have heard of some real sick shyt, but there is a new movie documentary out called ZOO. It is about a group of men that have sex with animals. Oh WOW! Surprisingly, (but not really a surprise, I mean it is a horse) one of them dies from a ruptured asshole from being phucked by a horse dyck! Here is the review from TV Guide Scoop http://www.tvguide.com/detail/movie.aspx?tvobjectid=287600&more=ucmoviereview After two stylish fiction films (THE WOMAN CHASER, POLICE BEAT), Seattle-based filmmaker Robinson Devor makes his astonishing documentary debut with this bold and unforgettable meditation on a truly bizarre incident that pokes at the very heart of one of our culture's biggest taboos: the 2005 death of a Seattle man several hours after being quite willingly sodomized by a horse. On July 2, 2005, a divorced, 45-year-old Boeing executive who'd been spending the weekend at a friend's farm in Enumclaw, Washington, was anonymously dropped off at the area community hospital...

Don Imus' comment about "Nappy Headed Ho" has sparked several debates throughout the country. Yes, RACISM is alive and well in America, we all know that and we all will discuss this issue for a moment and then quietly it will go away. As it usually does, because everyone is trying to remain Politically Correct with words, terms, and tense...etc. Because of Imus we now want to delve into the Hip Hop Industry and how they continuously degrade women...which is true, I don't want to sit here and state that what it is they say about women is right, because we all know its wrong. We have had the ladies of Spelman College talk about this, and nothing happened. We have had several black congresswomen and state senators discuss this issue- with nothing being done. NOW all of a sudden Hip Hop is bad and projects negative images of women. Yes, its been going on for years and now folks want to talk about it. The negative portrayal of women in music and hell, Hollywood period is a...

The rape charges against the Duke lacrosse team have been dropped. This topic feeds off of a previous topic I posted March 1, 2007 "It Was Consenual ---She Called It Rape". It was about a friend of mine who was investigated/interrogated because of a consenual sexual act that was later called rape. The charges were dropped, but he will forever have to have that over his head. Let me say that as a woman, one of the worst things that can happen to you is to be violated...sexually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. BUT...I think too often women put themselves in situations where they do not have control and therefore you have alcohol mixed with raging over zealous hormones...not an excuse for what happened, but you must be more aware of your surroundings and the situations you place yourself in. To answer your question, no I don't put myself in situations that I know would be unsafe. I would feel remiss in not commenting on the charges that were recently dropped against ...

After much thought about the comments that Don Imus uttered, I would be totally remiss in not discussing the part that WE (society, but in particular blacks)play in this. Is the black community so blinded that they can't see what is going on? When did Jessie Jackson and Al Sharpton (two men that I don't personally trust) become the voice of the Black Community? They are protesting that a man be removed from his job, yet when it comes to the "flossing" and "blinging" of the rap industry and their attitudes toward women and the use of the "N" word they are silent...why? Women parading around in next to nothing, parroting sexual acts on the idiot box while men "throw" money at them like dogs is what...okay to them? Our community plays a vital part in how we are seen and/or portrayed, because the entire world thinks we are a bunch of savage men and loose women. Let's face it, the music industry calls my gender everything but the child of ...

Don Imus must go...the comments that he made on his radio show, were not only offensive to me as a black woman, his words hit me on so many levels. As a dark skinned sista, the words jiggaboo, pickaninny, and darkie set me off! And then you couple that with words like "nappy headed ho's" and its on! But doesn't the issue for us as a community go deeper, than Don Imus. Doesn't the accountability begin and end how WE feed into the stereotypes? Lets think about that for a moment and don't for a moment think I don't feel that Don Imus should be removed, but you and I both know that he wont. If anything this only proves that the African/Black/Colored/Negro Community is constantly under the microscope of the world! Its crazy, but with this statement it is so true...especially when it comes to someone voicing a sentiment that I believe they have always felt in their heart, but was too policitically polite to state it. We have seen Michael Richards trying to back ...

Over the past few months I have been thinking and reflecting alot on relationships...why, why, why, why, why? Why do people do the things that they do? Why do people say the things they say? Why am I still single...and I thought about alot of situations that involved me personally. I thought about situations that I see women around me in, and I hear of situations all of the time...and to be honest, I am still searching for the answer. When folks read this they are going to hear alot of bitterness in this blog and that is because I at the moment I am writing this I am bitter. I am angry, upset, confused, but most of all, I am tired. I am tired of the lies, I am tired of the distrust, most importantly I am tired of the game. Everyday I listen to the radio there is some woman whining about how her man is cheating! I listen and I want to say you have one of two choices, shut the fuck up and deal with it, or leave. Don't tell me shit about the kids, the finances, or anything like that.....

Everywhere I turn, there is a nut bucket on television committing heineious crimes against other individuals in the name of love... I've heard of some crazy stories over the last few days all about how some nut bucket man is crazed enough to kill "his girl" because she had the temerity to stop seeing him and started seeing another man. This mindset and/or attitude of "if I can't have you know one will" is truly beyond crazy. The latest story reads... "Houston, AP News - A 19-year-old Texas A&M University student was killed by her ex-boyfriend, who then dismembered and burned her body on a patio grill, authorities said Saturday" This bastard was fucking crazy with a capital C! Obviously the death penalty means nothing to him, because Texas is killing their inmates left and right...and this young animal should be the next on the list. Fuck his trial...why is he still sharing the air that I and others breath...why is he allowed a fair trial...wha...

How honest are you about your past sexual history with your significant other? Are you totally honest and up front about those college days...and how you "got drunk" and in that "altered" state of mind you let the frat boys run a train on you? Or in that same frame of mind you "made out" with someone of the same sex? Can you honestly handle the truth if you were to find out that instead of being her fifth lover like she told you, you're really number 105? I mean they say when a woman tells you how many lovers she's had you automatically multiply it by 2, but does same sex partners count? What if she "stripped" to "pay her way through college"...what if, what if, what if???? Damn IF - If wish was a dish, I'd be full...right! The same goes for women...how would you feel if you found out that he let one of his frat brothers lick peanut butter from his nipples? Remember he, just like you, were "drunk"...blaming shit on...

I wonder why do people fuck the people that they do...you know I think about crazy ass shit like that. What made you fuck the person your with? Or the last person you were with...or currently with? Was it the dick/pussy? Did they give good head? Did he just touch all the sides of your walls at once while blowing your back out...did she whip her hips like a hula hoop...I mean what was it? Was he/she worth it? Did you really like them, or was it just a random act of senseless sex? I ask because it makes me wonder....why are you sleeping with the person your sleeping with. Is it a relationship? Or is that you are just sex buddies....(thats the next blog...) SassyScribe

I don't even know what to name this blog...but why is it that you see ugly, funk stank, nasty ass people with babies. Maybe its because I see so many children not giving the chances and opportunities that I had. Or that the children in my immediate and extended family have. I say that to say, you ever see some women, look at how they look, act, dress, ----total over all appearance and you wonder "Who in the hell would fuck that?" Don't lie, I know people do...I see it daily. I also see it with men..."Who would let him fuck them?" is what I think, and then I turn and see his female counterpart trailing behind him with three or four little ugly baby roaches...just plain ignorance breeding ignorance. I say to myself, the only reason why that woman has a baby is not because she wanted one, but because she wanted the world to know that someone, at sometime, fucked her! Period! There is a man out there that ran up in her and she has living proof of the off-spring....

Should a woman have to convince her man, hell for that matter any man, to make love to her? I ask because yall know how I have friends and how they confide in me and ask me questions, well this one friend has been seeing a guy and although they used to have sex, they don't anymore. She said that its almost like she has to convince him to do it to her. Shit, I used to have alot of men interested in wanting to "get to know me", but now that I have since abstained from intimacy, my phone is silent and the dates have stopped! But at least I know where they are coming from. SEX is important to men. Unlike women, SEX is an extensial expression of how a man may feel about you. Men aren't as verbal as women when it comes to that, (I said not as verbal) because there are some men out there that are very intune and in touch with their more sensitive side. But regardless of whether or not I have chosen to abstain, should I want to "get down with the get down" TODAY, it...

I am pissed off and fed up with the way in which people are treating children. I am so sick and damn tired of hearing one sad story after another. In the last 3 days there have been 3 outrageously appalling stories on the news media. First there was the little boy that died of a toothache that manifested itself into an infection that went to his brain! All because the parents didn't have any other health care other than Medicaid and dentist do not take them. What most black people don't know is that they can get care for anything at any teaching hospital in their area. Secondly, unless you have been living under a rock, many of us know about the young brothers in Texas that videotaped them getting a 2 year old and a 5 year old HIGH! They acutally showed their faces and thought it was very funny to get these youngsters stoned. What in the blue hell possessed them to do such a thing and not think it wouldn't have any repersucssions! I was shocked, appalled, but most of all hu...

This is at the request of a friend who asked me why do women lie about having consensual sex and then cry rape? He said he met this girl, and things were cool, it was just supposed to be a stick and move...and real easy in and out type of deal, but he said because he didn't cuddle...because he didn't sweet talk or smooth talk or appease her fragile female ego, she has now decided that what they did was not consensual rather it was rape. He didn't find this out until recently when he opened his door and the detectives were there questioning him about "said female" and "his said actions" towards this female. Ironically, he is a relationship and just gave his girl an engagement ring over the weekend and then this happens. When he asked me about it, I had no real answer because I'm a woman and I know that even though its not right THERE ARE PLENTY OF WOMEN THAT CRY RAPE! Its an easy way out of a bad situation for them. Its wrong as hell, but because they...

Knowing what you know today, would you have had your children with the same person(s)? Its funny how children seem to change a relationship, and I wonder if we had chosen our co-procreators better then what would the end result have been? This thought has been marinating in my mind as I sit back and watch the things people say and how they interact with their children(s) parent(s). I detest the term "baby daddy" or "baby momma", I prefer the word parent. See, I think people are overwhelmed by the feelings of lust, and therefore forgo all precautions. It may not have been intentional, but the end result is a child, and children are blessings, unfortunately, not everyone is prepared for and/or capable of accepting their blessing(s). We see/hear daily how women use children as weapons of evil against the "man that did them wrong" when they didn't check to see that their "man" already had two children prior to theirs that he wasn't doing rig...

I have been to several parties over the years, but just recently I got invited to a couple of parties and they were dry, dull, and boring. The host & hostess couldn't wait for me and my sisters arrival to make their party a real party. I looked at them funny, and they said "you girls know how to throw a party, we don't" and yet they keep having them. Anyway, I told them it wasn't that they didn't know how to throw a party, its the people they invite. I'm sorry, but there are too many folks that are my age who think that just because your married with kids you no longer are able to have fun. That is so not the case...in order to throw a successful party there are several key elements that one must do, that is absolutely necessary to having the bombest of parties. Before everyone blasts me, unless its a BBQ or something to that effect...I feel that all adult parties are just that...for the adults. Therefore, if you have teenage children, make plans to ha...

Man stop tripping! I am sick and tired of talking to men/women who are tripping out over a simple piece of ass! When you decide to have a strictly sexual relationship with a person, don't get mad or upset when all you get from them is sex. A strictly sexual relationship in my opinion is one that consists of well, sex! You meet, you may exchange a few pleasantries, and then you commence to phucking. The rules of engagement must be explict prior to engaging in this form of relationship. That means a clear and concise understanding of the rules. In order for this relationship of just sex to last, there can be no gray areas...no stone should be left unturned. You will discuss the number of times you will meet, and also whether or not you will be engaging in various types of sexual pleasures. Unfortunately, I find that even men and women can get confused and allow things to occur that shouldn't, so I have compiled a list of do's and dont's. Do Do Practice Safe Sex - condoms/...

The last blog about black women not being as freaky as women of other races has prompted numerous responses directly to me and the vote is split. Half of the brothers are saying that it is absolutely correct that black women aren't as freaky for fear of being called a "freak". The other half of the men are saying that that was one brothers excuse for his preference in dating women of other races AND that they have had wonderfully freaky experiences with numerous sisters. They did have one caveat attached to the latter statement, and that is that the women trusted them to let it all hang out and that they (the men) were able to pull that freak out of her. It seems from the responses that some men love it when women will allow them to "have their way with them" from jump! I mean what is more of an aphrodisiac than control! But the extreme to me is not so much as having a one night stand, that seems to de riguer today, but to have a one nite stand and allow him to ...

Is it true that Black Women aren't as freaky as women of other races? A situation occured this weekend where a gentlemen said he preferred women of other races because they are more open sexually than Black women! For me, that statement was like him throwing down the gauntlet! How dare he make a blanket statement like that to say that black women aren't as open sexually! (You must not know about me...were my thoughts) What he really meant was that black women aren't as freaky as women of other races! Which is a gross generalization and just plain (IMO) F A L S E! That man's preference for dating are women of other races...his statement was his excuse as to why he prefers them...bottom line is he likes to get his freak on...that is what he should've said and left it at that! I can't speak for all women (regardless of race) but as a Black woman I am just as open sexually, just as freaky as women of other races...the issue is that I am not open and as freaky with ...

After listening to Michael Baisden yesterday, it amazed me that women are still falling for the same ole tricks. With the advent of Valentine's Day upon us, I wanted to take this time to advise the ladies not to fall for the jedhi mind trick that some men will try to do. I remember a cousin of mine saying that he always broke up with his women on Halloween and then picked up with them again after Valentine's day. I was appalled that the women didn't catch up on this, but his explanation was that he breaks it off with them on Halloween, he flies under their radar. It also enompasses Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years Eve, and Valentine's day...ergo he saved a ton of money by not having to purchase multiple gifts. It also freed up his time for other pursuits...basically women with little or no expectations from them...women already involved and unhappy...bottom line---women wanting SEX only. I am a firm believer that when a person's habits and behavior begins to chan...

Every woman needs to read this! ____________________________________________________ In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said "Yes." She began to expound... "As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?" The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. "I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to exp...