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Valentine's Jedhi Mind Tricks of Men

After listening to Michael Baisden yesterday, it amazed me that women are still falling for the same ole tricks. With the advent of Valentine's Day upon us, I wanted to take this time to advise the ladies not to fall for the jedhi mind trick that some men will try to do.

I remember a cousin of mine saying that he always broke up with his women on Halloween and then picked up with them again after Valentine's day. I was appalled that the women didn't catch up on this, but his explanation was that he breaks it off with them on Halloween, he flies under their radar. It also enompasses Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years Eve, and Valentine's day...ergo he saved a ton of money by not having to purchase multiple gifts. It also freed up his time for other pursuits...basically women with little or no expectations from them...women already involved and unhappy...bottom line---women wanting SEX only.

I am a firm believer that when a person's habits and behavior begins to change, then there is definately something wrong. Women have that inate ability of intuition that they rarely rely on. Their gut is talking to them telling them that it doesn't sound right and more importantly it doesn't feel right, but because of the societal pressures of wanting (or is it needing) to have a man in their life, that they ignore their instinct.

The tricks are too numerous to name, but ladies the main two are starting an argument with you a few weeks, the day before, or even the day of so as to avoid getting you a gift and the other one is to break up with you to avoid giving you a gift.

Again, these two tricks are not about all men, just the trifling ones...LOL

SassyScribe

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