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This poem spoke to me on so many levels...ladies, this ones for you.

~By Dana Gilmore ~Def Poetry Jam

I guess I should not be surprised that my beginning was his end
After all, we were just friends
Although in my world I was his girl
So in my mind I pretended to be his wife
Saying sh*t like, "there's only so many years in a woman's life"
Right, so I gave him three

Yet he had the audacity to step to me on this
Donnell Jones "I don't know where I wanna be" type sh*t
I wasn't supposed to be like this
He hit me with the forehead kiss
He told me life was a journey and he was ready to explore this sh*t
And I was pissed

I start pullin' out Tupac hits telling me to keep my head up and

R.Kelly picks about when a woman's fed up
Cause I was down with him for so long, that I didn't think I could get up
Till one day I got tired of sleeping on pillows my tears had wet up
and Realized that life goes on
And no he didn't choose me and that doesn't …

Sex at the Beach

We enter into our Oceanside room overlooking Virginia Beach. The four-room suite has a bedroom with a fireplace and Jacuzzi tub and huge separate marble bath with eight showerheads. There is also a small kitchenette with a wicker glass topped table and matching chairs and a sitting area.

As darkness falls, I light candles throughout the room while you start the fireplace. You stretch out across the bed in those sexy boxer briefs I love. I kneel on the bed beside you and begin to place hot moist kisses on your body from head to toe and back again. I watch you grow and swell against those briefs, as I start to fondle you there, releasing you from ‘prison’. I kiss the underside of your hardness sliding my tongue up and down. I grip the base to keep it still and just place it in my mouth feeling you throb inside their, all hot and eager for you…my mouth is watering...Slowly I move up and down, my tongue moving across the head of your dyck...I cannot control the saliva building up making it…

Characteristics of Men

The 12 Characteristics of Men
Saphari Books, Inc.
January 2006©

Once I read about the characteristics of women, I sat down and thought of the different types of men...ladies we've all at one time in our lives fell for, dated, married, slept with, sexed down, ran after, chased, was so super pressed that we lost ourselves at one point in time for these types of men.

As a "serial dater" - I date, but no one seriously to date...I've run across these types of men and have found the entire situation hilarious.

But I have to say, should we, like the men, fall for any of these types of individuals-we only have ourselves to blame.

Use these as a blue print for whom not to get involved with...and fellas, that goes for you too...

1. Mr. Love’m & Leave’m
This is the man who only wants one thing from a woman and as soon as he gets this he will not call. His female counterparts are Ms. Tease, Ms Elusive, Ms. Angry and Ms. Bitch. His catch phrase - “I’m not looking for a rel…

The 12 Characteristics of Women

I first read about this {January 2005} on the website from of an old friend of mine, but recently I received an email asking men if they've ever dated and/or know women with these type of charactersitics...

As much as I hate to admit it...I can see myself in each one of these "stereotypes" as a matter of fact, my ex would say I was Ms. Insecure and Ms. Romantic...well I am romantic I can't deny that. As for being insecure, I was with him...I just never felt like I was good enough to be with him. Like he was too good for me, but that is because I put him up on a pedastal, I felt like the sun rose and set out of his azz, the bottomline was, I thought his shyt didn't stink...

I felt that whomever wrote this, left out one other "sterostype" I have listed that as #13...

1- Miss Feminist
This woman postulates that all the ills of society are orchestrated by men and the best thing a man can do to improve himself is cut off his testicles and grow a pair of ovaries.…

Fantasies...Dreams...or is it Reality....

You Decide...

I arrived at your door dressed in a long trench coat. Peaking beneath the hem, you see sheer black hose and high-heeled black strappy sandals. You open the door ready to leave…as we ride along in your car, the coat opens up to reveal creamy chocolate thigh- making it hard for you to concentrate. We enter into the theater and purchase our tickets and concessions. Once inside we take our seats in the far right back row. The theater is near empty. I placed the hot bucket of buttery popcorn between my legs. For a while, I allow you to snack on that, but as you reach over for a final time (like 30 minutes b4 the movie ends), you find the popcorn gone. You felt the garter and my hot smooth skin. Your eyes grew wide with excitement and shock at the same and you whispered “What do you have on ?” “Nothing” I said, “but my hot flesh waiting – for you.”

My body was oh so wet yearning to feel your fingers glide inside of me. For the last 30 minutes, you dipped your fingers inside of m…

A MAN....

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differe…

My Dreams

I know its been a long time since i've updated my blog...please forgive me.

As a writer I have to think outside of the box when it comes to creating sexual scenes for my characters. Unfortunately, I am not like Zane and other authors that can pump out several books at a clip. I write from life experience, from things that have happened to me or to someone I know.

There are two things that inspire me to write: men and sex. Those two things are the guiding motivator behind me writing. Other than the ego trip I get to know that people will read what say for years to come. It is my legacy that I will leave to society, in lew of the children that I will never have. My books are my characters are my children and they help me to live each day to the fullest.

With that said, I am in the process of re-releasing my debut novel THE PARTY, and soon after that I will release my sophomore novel, THE AFTER PARTY, which is the sequel to the party. I have done alot of soul searching and i…