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40 Mistakes Women Make During Sex

This was written BY C. S. aka SoulChild74 of in answer to the 40 Mistakes Men Make During Sex...I am posting this with his permission...

1) CALLING ANYTHING ON HIS BODY “CUTE”. A man takes pride in being manly. Imagine seeing him naked and saying, “that’s cute”. Babies are cute and we men tend to refer to babies with cute.

2) LICKING IN OUR EAR HOLE. The first thought is ear infection and wet ear hole. Stick to sucking on the lobes and under the ear or even the outside of the ear but never the ear hole.

3) NOT SHAVING. No man wants to forage a forest. Hair carries odor so keep the bushes trimmed. Think of the vagina as a plate of food. The more appetizing the plate the more he will want to clean it with his tongue. Even those that don’t mind will hesitate unless they have a hair fetish.

4) PINCHING NIPPLES. You can lick, suck, massage but only freaky men like pinching and twisting the nipples. You can spot them from a mile away because they have nip…

40 Mistakes Men Make During Sex

This was sent to a group that I am in...I thought it was hilarious...

Author - Unknown...

1) NOT KISSING FIRST. Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay.

2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR. Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there's a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you're trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.

3) NOT SHAVING. You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it's not passion, it's avoidance.

4) SQUEEZING HER BREAST. Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.


Women and Ego's

I've been thinking about this topic for a long, long time. Basically, it comes down to something a friend of mine said to me a while back. "Your ego continues to amaze me!" Now that wasn't said with love, rather it was said with disdain, disgust, and doom. I found it to be funny at the time because the incident surrounding his statement, made him realize that it wasn't always about him. Up to that point, it was always about HIM. I put myself second to his wants, needs, and desires.

However, as I sit back and discect that statement, I have to realize that its not always about ME, althought it is about ME. Its about me because I am the only ME that I one is going to worry nor care about ME the way that I do. Well, at least I haven't met anyone that cares about me as I do, to date. By caring, I'm not just talking about the physical, I mean the mental, emotional, and spiritual ME.

In a discussion with a friend of mine, he stated that women seem to thi…

Million Dollar Question(s)

Why is it that some people can't commit to a meaningful relationship with just one person? I don't mean dating more than just one person, that scenario is obvious that they aren't ready to committ. I mean a relationship, the exploration of, or the beginnings of wanting to see where the relationship is going?

I have witnessed so many supposedly committed relationships, fall apart, because one or both of the individuals feel that they are going to miss out on something. Curiosity is killing so many relationships. But is it curiosity or just not the right "fit" for you? Are we listening to what that person wants? Are we not paying attention to their actions as well as their words. Sometimes, folks actions contradict their words. I.E - I don't want a committed relationship with you, but yet they call you constantly and spend the majority of their time with you. That's a problem, because while that person may enjoy your company, conversation, and presence, he/s…