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Sexual History - To Share or Not to Share?

How honest are you about your past sexual history with your significant other? Are you totally honest and up front about those college days...and how you "got drunk" and in that "altered" state of mind you let the frat boys run a train on you? Or in that same frame of mind you "made out" with someone of the same sex?

Can you honestly handle the truth if you were to find out that instead of being her fifth lover like she told you, you're really number 105? I mean they say when a woman tells you how many lovers she's had you automatically multiply it by 2, but does same sex partners count? What if she "stripped" to "pay her way through college"...what if, what if, what if???? Damn IF - If wish was a dish, I'd be full...right! The same goes for women...how would you feel if you found out that he let one of his frat brothers lick peanut butter from his nipples? Remember he, just like you, were "drunk"...blaming shit on alcohol is the old stand by...I don't buy it...you did it because you wanted to, maybe its curiosity but the bottomline was you did it.

How honest should you be from the beginning? I know you don't ask on the first date, but when you feel like you have a good vibe and the sex question comes up, how much do you reveal? Is there a set standard that after one month you tell and/or share/bare more of yourself? Or is there a three month rule? How much information is too much information? How fast is too soon?

Personally, I want to know your past sexual history, maybe not the first night...but lets be real. All of us at one point in our lives, have had "initial" getting to know you conversations, we can find out if a person is a prude or uninhibited and open about sex, with a view choice words. You can find out alot just by listening, because those that like to talk will reveal much...sometimes more than you needed/wanted to know.

I need to know if you went to sex clubs or sex parties...swing/swap events...are you polyamorous...do you believe in monogomy? Do you wear condoms all the time? Will I be the only one your sleeping with or should I just be happy I'm phucking you know? Those questions I need to know. How kinky do you like it...is freak your middle name? Do you want to tie me up each time and pour hot wax over my body? Or do you want to fill every orifice with toys and the like...those are questions that need to be asked. Do you like to cross dress 0r want me to spank you and say "you've been a bad boy"...are you submissive or dominant...do you get off by being rough and calling me a bitch...WHAT! Do you get off by me sticking more than a finger in your butt...do I need to tickle your prostate in order for you to cum? Tell me in advance...I'm all for giving you what you want...(in a perverse sense I'd get off ramming a man's azz) LMAO...

Call me nutty or crazy...but I know I'm not the only one with questions like this on my mind. I want to know the type of freak I'm about to "let into the gates of heaven" so tell me the truth when I ask and if I'm asking too soon, tell me that too...but don't lie to me because the truth will win out in the end.

So, do you share or not?

SassyScribe

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