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Dating Is Easy...

God blessed I love FB and all other social networking sites, because it allows me to be Sassy and speak my mind on topics I love... but most importantly it is a vessel that is allowing me to speak to women about their hangups and stupidty when it comes to men, dating, sex, and relationships.

Yes, I said stupidity...it looks as if some of them are getting dumber and more desparate as they get older. You know when I hear them saying the same things over and over adnauseum it makes my teeth itch. Why? Why is it that women have not learned from their mistakes? Why are they still asking the same damn questions over and over...how do I know if he likes me, is he only after sex...why is he lying to me, why does't he want to spend time with me...WTF

I can't take it anymore...Ladies, dating is so very easy...we have been blessed with a third eye and an uncanny intuition that talks to us everyday. Not just on matters of the heart but on all matters that involve, money, our children, our families...we listen to our gut on issues related to the latter issues, but always always tend to fall short when it comes to matters of the heart.

Maybe that's the problem. Maybe some women are putting their heart on the line alot quicker than they should. They aren't taking the time getting to know someone before they have pulled up their skirt and slid their thong to the side for a quick hit. It sounds crass because it is...women are giving up the goods so damn quick, why would anyone want to have a relationship with you if you are so easily influenced to give them something that is apparently being given to all and sundry--in essence for nothing?!?!?!

No I am not going to tell women how to get or keep a man, but I can tell you how to date men and enjoy it...I can help you when it comes to being honest with yourself and not compromising on what you believe in. I too have had my heart broken and trampled on...however I did something other women aren't willing to do. I stopped having sex, I continued to date, and above all else I was honest. I said what I meant and I meant what I said...its easy, but I see my sisters of all races too mired in their fear of being alone that they say one thing and do another.

A man sees the "flip-flop" on what you told him was something you would "stand firm on" and yet with a little glib conversation, he was able to persuade you otherwise and to his mindset if he was able to do it, then so are others. Men respect women who respect themselves...period.

We don't have to be bitches about it, but we do have to be convicted by our principles and standards.

Not all women, but some women are of the mindset that a woman has to act, do, be a certain way or have a certain look, when all they have to be is themselves. Trust me, brothers are the kings of BS, like a Nuit or Neteru they can smell it....its a scent on your body like fear...

So be yourselves, say what you mean, mean what you say...but most importantly, be honest...afterall if you just met someone, what's the sense and/or purpose of lying?

SassyScribe

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