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New Year...Same Mind Set...

Happy New Year…!!!!

Amazing how long its been since I have blogged. I have really and truly been enjoying myself and taking time out for new friends and family members. The holiday season is my favorite time of year because everyone, despite the rough economic climate, was still filled with such joy! And that is what I truly truly love about this season.

Although this is a new year, I still see and I am reading that people are still now willing and/or are unable to change. Why is it as this year moves into 2009 and we have a fabulous new President…our first African American President that woman are still relegating themselves as second best when it comes to men??!?!?!

I cannot begin to tell you how sad it makes me…now I know the statistics that are out there:

44% will never marry
Black women most uncoupled women on earth
The older a woman gets the more likely she is to date/become involved with a married man
Older women are more desperate
There are not enough good men around

To that I say “whatever”…because regardless of what the statistics say, I know that there are good men around…so I have to ask…two questions…

Why are single women giving up?
What is the attraction in married men?


Just wanted to kinda try and understand the mind of women who knowingly relegate themselves as a “side dish”…maybe y'all can help me to understand...

SassyScribe

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