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Soul Mates or Just Digging 'Em - Part II

I dug into my blog archives and ran across something that I wrote in October next few blogs are going to be from my archives...this is going to be enlightening for me and I hope for the reader as well...

How do you know when you've found your soulmate? Is there an earth shattering moment within your soul that speaks to another? Is there a moment where you just know, what you know, what you know? Does your heart palipate and your palms grow sweaty? Do you suffer from a loss of appetite? Are the last two signs of love or signs of having found that one person who is the other half to your soul. I ask these questions, because I want to know. How will I know when I've met my soulmate. Or have I met him already...and sadly lost him? How do you know? How will I know?

What does a soulmate mean to you?
My definition of a soulmate is a person who not necessarily completes you, but he/she will make you at peace with yourself. Meaning your automatically comfortable around this person. You'll feel no need to be on your best behavior because it will be a perfect "fit". You can be yourself utterly and completely. It is my hope that when I/if I do meet him, I will recognize him and hope that the feeling of soulmates is mutual.

Have you met your soulmate?
Honestly, I thought I had met my soulmate. We finished one anothers sentences, enjoyed one anothers company, and could sit and NOT talk with no "dead air" in the room. Thus, I digress...because even if I felt that, he obviously did it begs the question, again. How will I know if he is a soulmate or just someone that I really dig and enjoy spending time with? I'm interested in your comments... SassyScribe

Phew...was I idealistic then or was I still in love with that "soulmate"...I realize that the person that I thought was a soulmate was just someone that I "clicked" with on alot of levels. He was the type of man. that growing up I said I always wanted, educated, finanacially secure, handsome, funny, & charming...added to that he was the exact opposite of the man I had just left...maybe it was that he represented something different...maybe he opened my eyes to a different way of life, a new thought process of elevating my mind...but that was about it... as I reflect on that relationship, it was what it was...

Now, as I sit back, two years older and wiser (I hope I've learned from past relationships nee mistakes), I have to say, that I do believe that there is more than one soulmate a person can have in their life.

What are your thoughts on soulmates...or are you the type of person that's 'just diggin 'em'...



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