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Women & Accountability

"How can you give relationship advice, when you aren't in a relationship yourself?" This is the question asked of me by a female friend...she said that my blogs and talk show are great, she really enjoys reading and listening to them, but she doesn't understand how I can give out advice when I am not a current participant in a relationship at the moment.

I stated that Dr. Spock never had children but that didn't stop him for penning a best selling novel that was the model for how the baby boomers raised their children.

This person is a near and dear friend, so when she said it, it hurt my feelings and made me wonder if this is what everyone thinks. Then I pulled myself up by my bootstraps and told her that I do this to help women NOT to make the same mistakes I did. Having been in situations that were dumb, where I was STUPID, and naive, and just so damn gullible and blinded by those rose colored lenses I wore, that I hope that other women will read and listen and TRY not to make the same mistakes that I did. I know what I will and won't do when the time is right for me to be in a relationship...I will not be driven by my emotions, but will inject logic and reasoning into my thoughts.

In the past week I have been called a woman hater, and bitter, when that is not the case. If most of my blogs pertain to the stupid and silly things that women do, its because women do stupid and silly things.

AS SassyScribe my goal is to hold women accountable for their actions. I want women to know that no one, be it man, woman, child, or beast, can do anything to you that you don't want. If a person is not treating you with the love and respect you feel you deserve, that isn't the other person's fault, its your for not commanding and demanding it. You can't lay the blame at me for my social observations as to why women do the things they do. I started to get smart and say I write what I do because women do phucked up shyt and then wonder why the brother treated them in such a way. They did it because you allowed it...period.

The only way anything I write would upset anyone is because they see themselves in the words that I write. I don't want to pontificate, and expostulate unnecessarily, but hey, needs must! If the truth hurts, sorry, but I learned the hard way to always be honest at all cost. That doesn't mean I have to be crass, cross, bitchy, angry, brash, or tactless, but honesty is the best policy.

I have said it a hundred times, so it bears repeating...he didn't do you wrong, you did yourself wrong for allowing the disrespect.

Don't act like a whore and you won't get treated like one.
Don't act like a child and you won't be treated as one.
Don't lie and expect not to be lied to in return.
Don't use sex as a weapon, because anyone can get/give it.
Don't dress like a loose ninny and expect not to be treated as loose.

I could go on with this vent or rant as some may see it, but I'm not...for every action their is a reaction as all of our actions have a consequence to them. Sometimes as women, we have to stop thinking with our emotions and try to think logically, and no that doesn't mean think like a man, because we aren't men and never will be men, so stop trying.

I'm done...



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