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Men Need Validation From Other Men...

Okay, yall know that I write my blogs to try to get women to understand that the things they do and say contradict their actions when it comes to men and then they get upset, call me a woman hater and say that I need to write about the stupid shyt men do...and sometimes by the things they say...men are always harping on the fact that women need validation from them and how they don't want any woman to feel the need to use them for validation, but what about men????

I know that some women validate themselves and measure their worth as a woman by whether or not they have a man. They see affection and attention and sex, as wanting, needing, and loving.

But men need validation too...we see it everyday in the type of car that they drive, the job they choose/career path, and most especially the women they choose. Most men talk about their IBW and most always she has this super fantastic body and is a straight dime, oftentimes forgetting to look in the mirror and see that they aren't in fact super fine themselves and are more like nickels or even pennies than "dimes". You hear men talking about women, and how they don't want gold diggers and women who just want them for their money, but they know, especially the "non attractive men" (ugly is too harsh) know that the only way they got the woman they are with is because of that money and they use that and flaunt that to get the type of women they want. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't and then the men act surprised when they marry these tricks and she gets half...well she should especially if she dropped a rack of kids for you....wooosahhhh sorry I had to vent and get that out of my system....

Men validate their financial successes and measure their financial success to that of other men..."how much is the car" "what is the square footage of the home" etc, all requires validation and it has to come from other men...and men can say what the hell they want, and they don't have to agree with me on all points, but if they are honest and since they are always saying women aren't, then they understand that some of this is truth and some of it is a vent against bullshyting ass, sucka-ass, getting on my last damn nerve Men!

SassyScribe

Comments

Emily said…
this is so true.
men ALWAYS talk about how women are insecure and need validation from any and everywhere...but they are no different!

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