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How To Tell If He Is Cheating

I found this site and I think when a persons habits and behavior changes, for ME that is a sign that something is wrong and that the person's interest may lie elsewhere...these are some "trigger" phrases that makes me quiet, thoughtful, and watchful of all actions and words...but overall I watch the habits and behavior of the person, that tells on them quicker than anything

1. I got a run to make
2. I got business to take care of
3. Need time to sort things out
4. Going to be incommunicado for a while
5. Work is super busy

But that's just me...this article list some other hints and also talks about cheating online- which myspace has been accused of wrecking plenty of relationships...

Written by Dating Guru
“How do I tell if a guy is using me” is most probably the most common question I get asked on this site, the very first thing I think of when I get asked this question is simply since you are asking that very question you probably already feel used…

There is a big difference amongst men in this world, there are men who want to go straight into a relationship and there are men who want to get to know you better, these two types of guys should not be confused with each other! So how do you tell if a guy is using you? It can be as simple as just listening to your feelings as I said earlier asking this question to yourself means that you already feel used. But if you’re just curious about tell-tell signs of users then read on .

How to tell if a guy is using you
1) Listen to the feeling in your heart; are you being valued like a human being? Or do you feel in your heart that these values come from the guys expectations?

2) Is the man you are with interested in you, is he interested in your dreams, your desires and hopes? Or is the relationship you are having with him pretty much centered on his needs?

3) Do you get the feeling of being cared for and admired for who you really are? Or do you feel as you are only valued and cared for only for what you do for this guy in the relationship?

4) This question is a very important question and you should think about this very carefully! Do you two genuinely have a good time when you are together and there is no sexual activity going on between you two? Or is it the sexual activities that bring you two together most times?

5) When you have a conversation with him are the conversations about things in life, goals, desires, news and other interesting topics? Or are they conversations mostly about when you are free for sex?

6) Does this particular guy show you respect that you should deserve?

7) Is this guy interested in you, this includes everything about you! Your desires, family and friends? Or is he only interested in having “alone time” with you?

So ask yourself these questions and make sure you are open about your feelings, don’t suppress the feelings you feel or lie to yourself because you don’t like a certain answer.

More Signs of a Cheater
  • He avoids answering questions about where he’s been.
  • Different times when he arrives home.
  • Lack of sex drive - if his personality towards you has changed.
  • Your female and male friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating with your husband/boyfriend or have been told stories about what a bad wife or girlfriend you are.)
  • You’re cheating husband/boyfriend stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
  • He buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.
  • He carries condoms, but you are on the pill.
  • Sneaks out of the house.
  • More of an interest in his appearance
  • When you ask him if he is cheating on you, he can’t look at you in the eyes and answer your question
  • Creates a separate cell phone account that gets billed at his office.
  • Starts deleting all in-coming calls from the telephone Caller-ID system
  • Stops wearing his wedding ring
  • Picks arguments with you in order to have an excuse to stomp out of the house.
  • You receive calls that you answers but when she hears your voice she hangs up.
  • He whispers on the phone or hangs up quickly

I think this is on point...what do you think? Most everyone has their own cheating scale, so how do you "know"...



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