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Jealousy & Insecurities

Okay...this a phucking vent, rant, gripe session, whatever you want to call it...but I am so tired of hearing about women upset at their man because of his friendships with women. I lost a really close friend because of his girls insecurities and I told him that since you have to phuck her and I don't, its best that we just chill with the friendship stuff, no more party invites for me...but I will keep him on my Christmas list...damn shame to because we had alot of fun together, and because of that his girl sees me as a threat...oh well...

Jealousy and insecurity are two ugly qualities that I think we all have within us. Some of us are more adept at handling these negative emotions while others allow these emotions to rule their lives. They let shyt fester and grow in their mind like a little seed and all that seed needs is an overactive imagination to water it and make it grow. Shyt turns from a mole hill into a mountain and all it really is unnecessary drama. I have talked about this before but it bears repeating...especially when someone close to me has lost someone they love behind blind jealousy and insecurities...A person can take but so much accusation and assumptions from their spouse/significant other before the reality sets in that "if you keep accusing me of xyz, I might as well do xyz". Yes, this friend is a male, and it just amazes me the amout of bullshyt that folks put up with.

I know of so many relationships that have come to an end because of jealousy and insecurity. What I have noticed is that a woman, when she doesn't have a "label" to identify her "standing" in her man's life tends to be insecure of all of his female friendships.Why are women so very threatened by other women? I mean I know this happens for men too, but I don't see this so much in men having insecurities as women...

How do you handle jealous and insecure people in your lives...

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