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Gripe Session

I am so tired of listening to women talking about how much they love their man, but he has cheated on me, or they found women's phone numbers, or he doesn't answer his cell phone, or yada...yada...yada...!

Dammit...get a phucking life! Why do you continue to bitch, moan, and groan about he ain't ________________ (please fill in the blank). Women know within their hearts the type of man that they are dealing with. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to tell you that he isn't the man for you. It doesn't take your friends or your family...all it takes is you!

I remember having a conversation with a married friend of mine and she told me that her husband didn't answer her calls after 10pm. WTF is that! I was appalled to hear her come out of her mouth with this...granted their marriage is strife with issues, not the least of which he is cheating AND SHE KNOWS IT. But to tell big mouth me, that he isn't answering your calls...just not the thing to do. Because I had alot to say on that and of course it came back to me with anger as "well at least I'm married" and I'm yeah but your miserable as hell, if that is what marriage is like, then you can have it. I will stay my 42.4% single self...with no prospects thank you very much if this is what I have to look forward to.

All I'm saying is this- we all know women like this don't we...sisters, cousins, aunts, friends...they are surrounding us daily as they turn a blind eye to that odd indiscretion or habit forming stop your bitching and moaning!

Okay, my gripe session is over!



Anonymous said…
I concur Sassy,
Your friend has a very poor perception of how a Marriage is supposed to opporate. There is not a time in the day that my wife cannot reach me on my cell phone. There is not an hour in the day when neither one of us not know where the other is. We don't run each other down either. I have my life and my Wife has hers. We work about fifty miles apart on the opposite ends of the ATL metro area. We just don't give any space for the enemy to creep into the marriage that God has ordained for us! We both have made some mistakes in our previous relationships like anyone else! Your friend is not the exception sad to say. There are a lot of married couples that know that their spouse is cheating on the regular. They all have verious reasons for staying ie: Very, very low self esteem, time served, kids, extended family, mutual friends, material goods, finances, age, whatever! I am not trying to pass judgement on anybody's situation. I just know that I couldn't stay in a "committed" relationship like this. I am convinced in my older age that there are certain people out their that don't mind having their hearts trampled on the regular! We ALL are capable and probable of making mistakes in relations/Marriage. The problem comes in when you don't learn, grow and change. Then one would probably deem that type of person as STUPID!

Peace & Love,

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