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I Am Going There...Online Dating

I have been trying to avoid this topic for the longest time...but I have to go there...I need to talk about the large number of women who put themselves out there for the world to see...azz, tits, and in the extreme cases "coochies" are all over the internet for the world to see.

I am so sick and tired of women that post half naked pictures online, with their tits and azz up in the air, they have screen names like "MsHottAzz" or "CumLickMe" and in the next breath talk about how they want a man to respect them...how much they love the Lord, and that a man has to be a Christian and walking the right path to be with them. When they have shown just from their profile that #1 God knows your heart, whether your hooching it out or not...he knows it, so why try to hide the freak within and mask the outside self with "christian like" traits?

It boggles my mind...how in the hell can you say you're looking for a man to love and respect you when you don't respect yourself enough to NOT show everything at once. Leave something to the imagination, because know one wants the gift already unwrapped, some prefer to unwrap it themselves. Don't get me wrong I am not a conservative person and I think if you want to get your freak on, then freak away. My issue is that women generally tend to show one thing, but say another.

I'm not gay or bi, but if I were a man and I were to see a woman with all her goodies on display and her screen name was MissHotMouth, then I would look upon her for one thing and one thing only. Is it judging a book by its cover- YES! Is it right or fair- NO? So what...that's me and that's how I see it. How are you going to get a man in a serious relationship when you've shown him a side to yourself that in some cases most (women) don't even want to admit to. They want to hide and deny that inner freak...why I don't know...I think the freak can be expressed with words and released with the right person(s).

If you want to meet someone and have sex, then by all means do so. I think the majority of individuals online only want to have sex anyway...they aren't really looking to committ, they are looking to hit...and if that is what you want FINE! Don't say you're looking for a LTR or Serious Relationship, when in fact all you want is sex...say so, most men would like that anyway instead of wasting their time with unnecessary conversations and dates.

I'm not trying to monitor what it is others do...my goal is to make people (women) especially more accountable for their actions. In essence you get back that which you put out...you put out the signs of a freak, your going to be treated as such and responded to as a cheap, easy trick...I'm not saying that its right...but that's just the way it is...

SassyScribe

Comments

Soulchild74 said…
OK, online dating is just that, what you see is what you get. You don't get married off of the Web, just doesn't happen.

Honestly, if a woman was showing all the goodies to the rest of the world then there is nothing else to see. I might look at it but I don't have to touch it. Better yet, I don't know if I want to touch it depending on how she looks. She could have a clapper on her snapper. How do I explain that to the doctor? No thank you and no respect.

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