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The girls and I were sitting around talking and as always the conversation turned to men and sex. Its no secret to anyone that knows me how the topic of men and sex motivate me to say, know, learn, and do A LOT!

Well the question is this -Does monogomy exist?

My girls {two of which are married} stated no, and of course the three single ladies said no, yes, and maybe. The point is, with five such differing opinions, I felt the need to write about it.

I was one of them that said no. I mean as sad as it sounds, I think it takes a very special person to not succumb to the pleasures of the flesh and the myriad temptations awaiting us in our daily lives. You know what I'm talking about. Ladies, how many of you have a sexy co-worker, a fine azz vendor, or smoking "friend" that you've yet to cross that line with, but given the chance, I mean the slightest and/or mereist hint and ITS ON! The men I'm sure are faced with this question all of the time. I mean hell, isn't non monogamy a mans rite of passage ? Or am I wrong....hmmmm

I look at it like this, we can and most do have feelings for more than one person. Whether or not its just a physical response, an emotional connection, or just an out right desire to "do" that person the need is there. The seed for removing yourself from that non-monogomous relationship has been planted. {JMO- Just My Opinion}

But hell, this entire site consists of my wild imaginings, dating woes, and otherwise hot, erotic, sensuous, and hedonistically thought provoking blurbs.

I'm interested to know your thoughts on the matter. Do you believe in monogomy?



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