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Happily Single

Michael Baisden "dubbed the baddest man on the box" has created a grown and sexy environment for those individuals that are single..."Happily Single".

I joined this group, because out of all of my years of whining about not having a man, I am at that point in my life, where having a man is not the high priority on MY list, that it used to be. What is the high priority is that I ENJOY my life to the fullest as it stands. That means I have to get out of my comfort zone, begin to enjoy, travel, and do things on my own, without my ace, my girl, my best friend by my side. {she is one of the lucky ones to be happily MARRIED}.

Now having said that, I ventured into a new world over the weekend...a world where Happily Single individuals bask in their singleness... This past weekend opened up my eyes to the true world of internet connections and partying.

I found myself traveling to Woodbridge, VA, to the host site of the weekends events. I was expecting an estrogen party to the nth degree. However, it turned out to be just as many men as women that had braved the horrendous torrential downpours to come and seek out there online "family".

We talked about the issues facing men and women, the dating saga of the new millennium, parenting, marriage, committments, etc...the conversation was lively and jovial. The playful flirting and light banter was contagious and everyone joined in.

There were a couple of our online family and friends members that, unfortunately, were unable to attend.

As the party wound down, everybody got dressed to go the HS hangout--Martini's in Fort Washington, MD. Sadly, I was unable to attend, because I had a date...

As for my thoughts on Happily Single...I think BB {as he is know to us aka Bad Boy} has a great venue to meet and seek exciting singles with the same mindset. We are all happily single, but we are not averse to a little "bed play" should the need arrive.

Fellas...74% of sistas are on that us there... .



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