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I LIKE what I LIKE

Dating Saga continues...

WOW! Since my last few posts I have been out on several dates...and I've talked to alot of people...hmmph...the funny thing is...no one is really quite measuring up. When I say that, I mean on paper {i.e. online, as stated in their profiles, via online chats and emails} they sound great. But in person, I seem to get the same ole same ole...

Is it me...or is it that people are having problems being honest and telling the truth? I am brutally honest, sometimes too honest, too open, too upfront about myself, my likes, and dislikes. What I'm willing and not willing to put up with, and I expect the same. Yes, this post may be redundant for some, but for me, I have to get this off my chest and let the brothers know...hell, I need to ask them...what the hell is up??? If its something about me---tell me...I can accept honesty and I can handle hearing the truth. It is getting to the point where I have actually cancelled my service with those dating sites. Hell, why pay someone to meet a man who wants to just sex me...I can do that on my own, right? I don't need to pay someone to do that for me...

As I said, I've met some genuinely nice men, unfortunately, they aren't looking for a relationship or they aren't ready to get into anything serious. Which is cool...its honest, and I respect and appreciate honesty. What I don't respect are the men out there who say they want a relationship but in reality only truly want sex.

I'll say it again...I like what I like...I've met quiet a few with personality, a few with sex appeal, but none of them with that extra added umph...the combination of personality, confidence, charisma, and sex appeal.

I dig a man with personality...not so much as arrogance, but confidence. I dig a man with charisma...a man that can truly stimulate me mentally...and heighten my awareness of him physically, inspire me spiritually, and comfort me emotionally...it may sound like alot...but its not.

We all like what we like...right?

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