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Sexual Prefrences

Okay...you knew eventually I was going to take it to the LIMIT...well my question is this- why are so many of us hung up on various forms of sexual expression?

Personally, I am open for ANYTHING if I am into you! The only thing I have an issue with is the menage scenario...not really feeling it- I'm too selfish of a woman for that. But anything else I'm pretty open.

Now in the past I used to give advice to ladies about how to please their men {and before you start hating, no I DON'T have a MAN}...note I said how to please a man, not keep one! Anyway, I digress, but the point to this whole post is that many women stop doing the things that they did to get their man. Like the lingerie stops and the spontaneous sex stops. Which for men is a no-no...hell, we all know how they hate to have their candy taken away from them. For some men they need the visual of lace bra, thongs, garter, stockings and heels, while for others plain nudity will work. One of the main problems is that people aren't discussing this situation by the time they get to their 4th date. It is definitely up there with the children and finance discussion.If this isn't the problem, then the ladies are pulling out the freak card too fast. Now ain't nothing wrong with doing your thing, just don't give up all your freak moves at once...trust I've been there and its best to keep them quessing.

Its not just us ladies though, fellas y'all fall off in the ROMANCE {yes I said it and I'll say it again} the ROMANCE department is always short. I mean you might bring us flowers on the first date, maybe even the second, but once you think your in {that is usually around the 3rd date} you stop it with the flowers and all. You stop opening doors, helping us with our coats, pulling out our chairs and even ordering our meals. These gentlemenly type of characteristics, like flowers, PDA's- public displays of affection like hand holding is important to ladies...it enhances the awareness of the two of you as a couple- a unit. For some that is irrelevant, for others its justification- for me it is part of foreplay.

Yes, hand holding can be part of foreplay. Like a man's mustache and beard can and should be used in the foreplay arena ladies. I mean that is so sexy when it comes to non-verbal foreplay...imagine him coming from behind, trailing slow moist wet kisses up your back. At the same time, his mustache and beard tickles your spine oh so lightly...Hhmmm I can think of a couple of brothas where that would feel great right about now.

The point is sexual prefrence is just that- a prefrence. I prefer oral sex, especially with a man with facial hair- let me emphasize that the facial hair must be of fine quality. But if he has no facial hair its okay, but I am not as turned on by men without facial hair as I am men with facial hair. However, I will accept SEX in all of its forms...just make it good to me and for me!

So tell me...what is your sexual preference and why?

Comments

launch said…
i think nothing is sexier than a woman who is thick and in tune/comfortable with who she is and takes care of herself. a confident person is a sexy person

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