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3 Greatest Loves


3 Greatest Loves                             

Recently I learned that we only experience 3 great loves of our lives. I had no idea because I’ve only experienced the first of those 2 loves and I hope before I die, I get to experience the 3rd.
What are the 3 greatest loves that we will experience?

Young Love/First Love
Our first of the three is that of young love or our first love. It is new and fresh and has our emotions all over the place. We are told that this type of love doesn’t last, but we all know high school sweethearts who have been together since high school or in some cases middle school. I had this experience with my high school sweetheart; it lasted 15yrs...until it didn't.



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Toxic Love
Our second love is that Toxic Love. It’s that love where there is always some sort of drama or contention and for whatever reason we tend to overstay in this type of love. Sassy can tell you, that she has experienced a couple of these, not in an abusive way, but in a way that I knew they weren’t good for me but I didn’t leave immediately. Rather I stayed until I just couldn’t deal anymore.

Everlasting Love
Our third love is that Everlasting love. It’s that love that we just don’t see coming. We can’t explain it, but we are inexplicably drawn to them. It’s organic and out of the blue. This is the love that I and others are waiting for. Sadly some of us think we have this love, but in reality we don’t. We have a semblance of that. However, this will be that person you aren’t usually attracted to outwardly, however they will speak to something within us that we always wanted, but never even thought about it until it happens. It will be an easy fit and like I said, you won’t see this coming.

As I stated, I have experienced the first two and I hope before I leave this earth to experience the 3rd.

Saundra aka SassyScribe

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