What constitutes a good man? I can't begin to tell you how many times I have heard women say that "all the good ones are taken"...but what do they mean by that? Just today, I saw it online no less than ten times and in conversations with women as well....I mean what constitutes a good man? What are the mitagating deciding factors that make him good? Too often some people think that just because a man is married, makes him a good man...why, because he showed a committment to another woman? What makes a good woman? A phat ass? Bomb head? Money? Again, what are the factors that stipulate this is a "good woman"?
Here's the thing, he may look like a good man to you, but you don't know what he may or may not be putting his significant other through...I say S.O. because I know more non married people that have been together for twenty odd years than married people. The Non Married or Living in Sin as the old folks say, seem to be more committment to a non comittal commited relationship than most married people. (damn, wasn't that confusing...LOL)
The same thing for a woman...eventually, that phat azz and the bomb azz head will get older...shoot nothing gets older faster than pussy and dyck...read it again, I didn't say it wasn't good, I said it gets old...even new shyt gets old after a while...why do you think folks like myself and others are telling folks how to "bring the spark back to your love life"...cause it gets old...
The fact is, MEN & WOMEN have alot of shyt with them and those of us over 35 can attest to the fact that the older folks get the less likely they are willing to put up with alot of drama and unnecessary BS from another individual. Why should you? For that matter who the hell wants to? Although, we do know some folks still living drama filled lives...
Just because an individual is married doesn't make them a good person or a great catch--be it man or woman. That is no more believeable than the old saying that some women believe is that a good man is a rich man...when in fact that rich man is the same ole buster ass sucka from the Piggly Wiggly the only difference is that he has bank...other than that they too can have the same dumb ass bullshyt ass mindset as other folks...and the same goes for women...
Dont' buy into the belief that a good man is a married man or that a good man is a rich man...a good man is a man that shows strength of character, integrity, compassion, responsibility, stability, a sense of humor, and knows that the true measure of a woman doesn't lie between her legs. A good woman has the same factors, but is also nuturing, caring, submissive, and supportive and knows that the true measure of a man doesn't lie in his bank account. There are plenty of good men out there, and plenty of good women as well and for the men & women who say they can't find them then maybe they ought to do like Mike and "start with the man in the mirror"...
SassyScribe
Here's the thing, he may look like a good man to you, but you don't know what he may or may not be putting his significant other through...I say S.O. because I know more non married people that have been together for twenty odd years than married people. The Non Married or Living in Sin as the old folks say, seem to be more committment to a non comittal commited relationship than most married people. (damn, wasn't that confusing...LOL)
The same thing for a woman...eventually, that phat azz and the bomb azz head will get older...shoot nothing gets older faster than pussy and dyck...read it again, I didn't say it wasn't good, I said it gets old...even new shyt gets old after a while...why do you think folks like myself and others are telling folks how to "bring the spark back to your love life"...cause it gets old...
The fact is, MEN & WOMEN have alot of shyt with them and those of us over 35 can attest to the fact that the older folks get the less likely they are willing to put up with alot of drama and unnecessary BS from another individual. Why should you? For that matter who the hell wants to? Although, we do know some folks still living drama filled lives...
Just because an individual is married doesn't make them a good person or a great catch--be it man or woman. That is no more believeable than the old saying that some women believe is that a good man is a rich man...when in fact that rich man is the same ole buster ass sucka from the Piggly Wiggly the only difference is that he has bank...other than that they too can have the same dumb ass bullshyt ass mindset as other folks...and the same goes for women...
Dont' buy into the belief that a good man is a married man or that a good man is a rich man...a good man is a man that shows strength of character, integrity, compassion, responsibility, stability, a sense of humor, and knows that the true measure of a woman doesn't lie between her legs. A good woman has the same factors, but is also nuturing, caring, submissive, and supportive and knows that the true measure of a man doesn't lie in his bank account. There are plenty of good men out there, and plenty of good women as well and for the men & women who say they can't find them then maybe they ought to do like Mike and "start with the man in the mirror"...
SassyScribe
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