In a conversation with my best friend, she called me after reading my previous blog "Do Black Men Truly Despise & Loathe the Black Woman?" She understood that the characteristics the gentlemen described are in all of us, both men and women. She and I both found one or two that ascribe to us currently, but that does not a bad Black woman make.
So she asked me to ask the following questions:
Why is it that every question posed of the black woman is in the negative? Why is it that when we speak of the black woman we only see the wrong doings?
Why is it that when speaking of the bi-racial relationships….that people only speak of the black woman as being hurt and envious of the black men dating white women and not see the hurt and humiliation that white men feel that his white woman is dating the black man.
It can’t always be blamed on the black woman for all wrongs. If so, contrary to belief, there are still 99% of black men still dating the black woman……which goes to show black women must be doing something right…..
She wanted to know why is it that in discussions about Black America, its always focusing on the negatives of what WE as Black women are doing or not doing? How come they aren't extolling the value to loving and having a Black woman in their lives. Instead of always focusing on the negative, lets focus on the positives of loving a Black Woman!
I look forward to hearing what say you...
SassyScribe & Phunlovr37
So she asked me to ask the following questions:
Why is it that every question posed of the black woman is in the negative? Why is it that when we speak of the black woman we only see the wrong doings?
Why is it that when speaking of the bi-racial relationships….that people only speak of the black woman as being hurt and envious of the black men dating white women and not see the hurt and humiliation that white men feel that his white woman is dating the black man.
It can’t always be blamed on the black woman for all wrongs. If so, contrary to belief, there are still 99% of black men still dating the black woman……which goes to show black women must be doing something right…..
She wanted to know why is it that in discussions about Black America, its always focusing on the negatives of what WE as Black women are doing or not doing? How come they aren't extolling the value to loving and having a Black woman in their lives. Instead of always focusing on the negative, lets focus on the positives of loving a Black Woman!
I look forward to hearing what say you...
SassyScribe & Phunlovr37
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