Uncommon Behavior Or Is It...

I mentioned in a previous blog that it seems the worse you treat a person the more they want , or is it that they need to ingratiate themselves upon you?!?!? They find themselves wanting to do more for you...making any excuse to be near you, to contact you, to do whatever it is in their power to make your world better, regardless of how you treat them.

Its almost as if they WANT to be used...don't care if you abuse them...they have this defeatest attitude like whatever it takes, I am going to make this person mine. So if that means they shyt on me, then they shyt on me. But does a person really want someone in their life like that.

I just notice that for some folks they don't mind taking this abuse. In a conversation I had with friends, I asked this question. It was unanimous that this type of attitude/behavior was rampant in the dating world. Men said that if they didn't call a woman back, she seemed to sweat him more. He said he wasn't available, she called more. She asked him to various events, he pick and chose his timing of seeing her. I just shook my head. I mean is this a characteristic of a lack of self esteem? What is it...that makes this type of behavior so common?

Help Sassy understand, is this or is this not common behavior?



SassyScribe