A woman said to me that she didn't feel like she was good enough to "snag" a man. I looked at her stunned and thought Hmmm...what exactly is good enough?
Is her education not good enough? Her financial situation? Her looks? Her Weight? What? I mean there are more and more women living the single life, some by choice, circumstance, some just haven't learned to know themselves well enough to get a special someone.
But this puzzled me, because I hear all the time men and women say that she is a fantastic girl, but, or he is a great guy, but. BUT WHAT? What is it that everyone is on this fantastic search for in a person. As I write this I get angrier and angrier because I can hear folks saying that they want someone but they don't know what it is they want. What the piss is that? Or they say I know what he/she looks like, smell like, feel like, taste like, yet everyone the meet doesn't look right, or feel right, or smell right, or taste right...etc, etc, etc...
Unless or until folks (women) learn to love and know themselves then they are going to continue to feel "not good enough". If they are with someone and all they do is phuck, women should say to themselves, I'm good enough to phuck but not good enough for anything else, then they have the answer. You are only good enough for a phuck...and the other part to that is nine times out of ten, you aren't the only one he is phucking. Stop phucking him and learn to know another person, before you phuck. See if you can carry a conversation with the man for twenty freaking minutes without sexual content or innuendo. Can you see yourself actually wanting to spend more time with this person outside of the bedroom? If the answer is no, don't phuck him...at least I wouldn't! Hell, its easy enough nowadays to filter through folks spitting a bunch of damn BS...we all have heard the lines that go..."I just got out of a relationship, and I'm not looking to committ right now" or "I am focusing on my self, job, kids...etc." I know you've heard them because I've said the same BS my damn self. Especially when I know that I am never going to be with you in any way, let alone intimately...
So with that said, I want to know what in the Blue Hell is "Good Enough".
SassyScribe
Is her education not good enough? Her financial situation? Her looks? Her Weight? What? I mean there are more and more women living the single life, some by choice, circumstance, some just haven't learned to know themselves well enough to get a special someone.
But this puzzled me, because I hear all the time men and women say that she is a fantastic girl, but, or he is a great guy, but. BUT WHAT? What is it that everyone is on this fantastic search for in a person. As I write this I get angrier and angrier because I can hear folks saying that they want someone but they don't know what it is they want. What the piss is that? Or they say I know what he/she looks like, smell like, feel like, taste like, yet everyone the meet doesn't look right, or feel right, or smell right, or taste right...etc, etc, etc...
Unless or until folks (women) learn to love and know themselves then they are going to continue to feel "not good enough". If they are with someone and all they do is phuck, women should say to themselves, I'm good enough to phuck but not good enough for anything else, then they have the answer. You are only good enough for a phuck...and the other part to that is nine times out of ten, you aren't the only one he is phucking. Stop phucking him and learn to know another person, before you phuck. See if you can carry a conversation with the man for twenty freaking minutes without sexual content or innuendo. Can you see yourself actually wanting to spend more time with this person outside of the bedroom? If the answer is no, don't phuck him...at least I wouldn't! Hell, its easy enough nowadays to filter through folks spitting a bunch of damn BS...we all have heard the lines that go..."I just got out of a relationship, and I'm not looking to committ right now" or "I am focusing on my self, job, kids...etc." I know you've heard them because I've said the same BS my damn self. Especially when I know that I am never going to be with you in any way, let alone intimately...
So with that said, I want to know what in the Blue Hell is "Good Enough".
SassyScribe
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