Where to begin...there is nothing better than pleasing the one that you are with...right?
I can remember a time when women didn't even want to admit that they performed oral sex on a man/men, but nowadays, its a whole new game. Women are exalting in their new found power of persusion and seduction...they are revelling in their control of making him loose his mind for a few hot seconds...LOL
But in recent conversations with men, I am told that not all women truly know how to give a good blow job. Men will tell you that no teeth are needed, and please keep conversation to a minimum.
There are several techniques in the art of fellatio...I am just going to touch on a few...
Positions
ladies lay the man on his back and climb between his legs...this is the "king of the mountain" position, that will grant you access to his entire body...
kneeling/sitting is great also...the sensation is more intense and allows for deep throating
doggy style...he is on all fours and you get behind him, this is a great position if you enjoy "rimming"
69...enough said...gives both of you pleasure at once
tea bagging or throat swab...ladies lie upside down on the bed, and he straddles your face, this can also be reversed...
Senses
using your five senses of smell, touch, taste, see, and hear ---are integral aspects of fellatio...
Before one engages in this most intimate of acts, you must first See the penis, inspect it for any/all bumps, bruises, scars...etc...needless to say, if it looks like that I wouldn't suck it...
Touch him, gently place his penis within your hands to get the feel of his size, is the suface smooth, veiny, etc...
Smell...a part of hygiene...hair carries odor so hopefully he trims/cuts the hair around his penis, if not, suggest it...
Taste...slowly place the penis in your mouth as you move your tongue in a circular fashion...not all men are the same, some want more attention to the head of the penis, while others want mouth, tongue, and hands all working in tandem to bring him to release...additionally, we must not forget to give much love to the boys (nee balls) gently, slowly...we will touch on swallowing in another blog...(((smile)))
Hear...finally, you have to listen to his moans and groans, to get an understanding of what he likes and what he doesn't like...how are you making him feel as he feeds you his essence...
Now I know this list isn't exhaustive and inclusive, and I am sure that I missed something...but its just a few tips that women should know, if they don't...however, if you think I have missed anything, don't hesitate to add your two cents...
SassyScribe
I can remember a time when women didn't even want to admit that they performed oral sex on a man/men, but nowadays, its a whole new game. Women are exalting in their new found power of persusion and seduction...they are revelling in their control of making him loose his mind for a few hot seconds...LOL
But in recent conversations with men, I am told that not all women truly know how to give a good blow job. Men will tell you that no teeth are needed, and please keep conversation to a minimum.
There are several techniques in the art of fellatio...I am just going to touch on a few...
Positions
ladies lay the man on his back and climb between his legs...this is the "king of the mountain" position, that will grant you access to his entire body...
kneeling/sitting is great also...the sensation is more intense and allows for deep throating
doggy style...he is on all fours and you get behind him, this is a great position if you enjoy "rimming"
69...enough said...gives both of you pleasure at once
tea bagging or throat swab...ladies lie upside down on the bed, and he straddles your face, this can also be reversed...
Senses
using your five senses of smell, touch, taste, see, and hear ---are integral aspects of fellatio...
Before one engages in this most intimate of acts, you must first See the penis, inspect it for any/all bumps, bruises, scars...etc...needless to say, if it looks like that I wouldn't suck it...
Touch him, gently place his penis within your hands to get the feel of his size, is the suface smooth, veiny, etc...
Smell...a part of hygiene...hair carries odor so hopefully he trims/cuts the hair around his penis, if not, suggest it...
Taste...slowly place the penis in your mouth as you move your tongue in a circular fashion...not all men are the same, some want more attention to the head of the penis, while others want mouth, tongue, and hands all working in tandem to bring him to release...additionally, we must not forget to give much love to the boys (nee balls) gently, slowly...we will touch on swallowing in another blog...(((smile)))
Hear...finally, you have to listen to his moans and groans, to get an understanding of what he likes and what he doesn't like...how are you making him feel as he feeds you his essence...
Now I know this list isn't exhaustive and inclusive, and I am sure that I missed something...but its just a few tips that women should know, if they don't...however, if you think I have missed anything, don't hesitate to add your two cents...
SassyScribe
Comments
You hit this one right on the HEAD once again! LOL Anyway, to be perfectly honest with you. I received my first head job(s) from white females from school back in my late teens. They were the only ones doing it back in the day. The Sistah's were telling all of us straight up that they weren't having it!LOL We all knew who would and who wouldn't privately. I don't know what happened between the 1990's & 2000 but I'm glad that the tide has finally turned. I have to admit that Sistah's have definitely stepped up to the plate big time in this area!
Peace & Love,
brutbrut
Hair carries odor, that's why I think men and women should shave. I shave my underarms, forearms, legs, thighs, every stitch of hair must go...
But you are right about that practicing with fallic symbols...it will help giving a better head job than she realizes.
Practice after all does make perfect...
I know you are more than happy that sistahs have stepped up their game...the only problem I have is that they tend to do it with every man that they sleep with...even one night stands.