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Are You Listening To What HE is Saying?

Ladies are you listening to what your man/friend is telling you?

A few weeks ago, a friend asked me had I ever met someone that scared me...I laughed because I knew he was referring to this woman that he had met. They of course met online, and have been having conversation everyday since. He told me that she asked him what was he looking for and he said nothing...no relationship, no committment, nothing! I watched her throughout the day, and her eyes followed him, she was very intimate with him, you know touching him, giving him a napkin, wiping his lip...touchy feely all day. I could see her actions embarrassed him, but he, being the nice man that he is, didn't check her in the crowd. As the day went on, I told him, he was going to have to tell her again that he is not looking for a relationship, and once you tell her that, you tell her again, because her feelings are already involved with him.

This woman reminds me the herione in my novel THE PARTY, Shaeyla Andrews got caught up in a man and didn't listen to what he was telling her. She listened with half an ear, and in some cases only half a mind. She continuously misinterpreted what he was saying, his actions, and deeds. In the end Shaeyla suffered and so will this woman, but she is going to loose more than a potential mate, she is going to loose a friend.

Which brings me to my forthcoming chat discussion on October 7th, why is that women do not listen to what he is saying? I am interested in your comments...I will read all comments live in Baltimore on October 7th.

So ladies...Are You Listening To What He Is Saying?

SassyScribe

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