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Take or Be Taken

Recently, a friend asked me would I rather take or be taken?

I pondered that question for a moment. I had to let my mind marinate on it for a while and I realized that I'd rather be taken. I cannot speak for all women, but I enjoy it more when a man takes TOTAL control.

Being taken to me is a complete act of submission. Light S & M...hmmm doesn't sound bad, so long as it is with the right person. When I think of "being taken" I think of myself completely helpless to HIS will and HIS power. I am obedient to what it is he asks of me. I am there to fulfill his every whim, wish, thought, and desire. He doesn't have to ask me to do anything. He tells me what I am going to do for him...to him! All that is required of me is to yield to his will. Oh to be taken...Hmmmm...I can see the visual now...bound, tethered, tied...helpless, dutiful, subservient, docile...passive...

As for taking...I know for some that it is a huge turn on for a woman to "take" from HIM, not in the way of initiating the process, but actually taking over the entire act...

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