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...I Miss Intimacy the MOST

What I miss the most about not being in a relationship is the the intimacy.

I miss the closeness of that other person. I miss knowing that someone special, other than family and friends, cares about your well being. I miss having someone to share my good news with. My good times and my bad...I miss having someone willing to just listen to me talk a whole in your head about the most inane subject...LOL Not the small talk that we all make now in the early stages of dating. That getting to know you period, where you ask out of politeness "How was your day?", rather than actually caring to know about your day.

I miss laughing with someone...we all know that private joke that only the two of you know...I miss the joking, the teasing, the easy banter, the daily debates over current events, and the times where we just sit in companionable silence.

I miss the sharing of self...its not just wanting someone to care for/about me, I want to be able to express the same...to share, to laugh, to learn, and to grow...to be i n t i m a t e !

SassyScribe

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