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Freak Potential

Should women release their freak? I say yes, but surprisingly, while listening to Michael Baisden's radio show yesterday, I was astonished at the responses from the men calling in.

What I hear yesterday, was that men would rather cheat on their mate, rather than to have their mate fully explore every aspect of sexuality with them. Releasing that FREAK or SUPAFREAK!

In other words, the men said that their was a certain level of respect that they had for their wives or girlfriends. Is it me, because what I got out of that, is that they'd rather CHEAT with a woman or women that will allow them to violate their bodies per say in ways in which the wife/girlfriend won't.

Now maybe its me, but that sounds crazy. A man would rather CHEAT, go away from home and FREAK another woman, but does not want to FREAK their wife or girlfriend. Hmmmm, is it because he will question where she learned this or that? Is it because, she may be a little too freaky, and he feels he may not be able to control and or tame that freak.

I think this is sad, if I had a man, I would rather explore all of my FREAK with him, rather than give him half a freak, then make sure I let the whole FREAK out with someone else.

I'd be interested to see how other men think. Maybe the men that called in were older, maybe the younger men would rather have one complete package in their woman. A woman that is not afraid to show a more creative, adventerous and sensuous side to themselves.

But in the end, what do I know...

SassyScribe

Comments

Anonymous said…
a lady in public but a freak behind closed doors. or for the women a gentlemen in public but behind closed doors nothing is off limits. with regards to your question i would rather have the whole package at home than seek it out in other places. the key is that like in an earlier post you must be comfortable in who you are. You must have developed a level of intimacy with another where you feel comfortable discussing eroticism between the both of you with no fear of retribution. if you have that trust you may have that freak at home waiting to come out when the comfort level is right. so you must in different ways continuosly bring that freak out. if you have that quality freak at home you don't have to stray or look or wonder :what if, am i missing anything". it comes down to comfort level for some men. that is just a perspective from a 36 yr healthy b/m. For when the sex is right you look forward to the freak coming out; she can be you personal freak, your nurse, teacher, etc. lol!! and you can be whatever she desires as well. :) :) as they say nothing is undeflied in the bedroom between two consenting adults. so freak on my brothers and sister at home!!! after reading some of your erotic posts, i wouldn't stray if i had that at home. :) :)

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