Okay...you knew eventually I was going to take it to the LIMIT...well my question is this- why are so many of us hung up on various forms of sexual expression? Personally, I am open for ANYTHING if I am into you! The only thing I have an issue with is the menage scenario...not really feeling it- I'm too selfish of a woman for that. But anything else I'm pretty open. Now in the past I used to give advice to ladies about how to please their men {and before you start hating, no I DON'T have a MAN}...note I said how to please a man, not keep one! Anyway, I digress, but the point to this whole post is that many women stop doing the things that they did to get their man. Like the lingerie stops and the spontaneous sex stops. Which for men is a no-no...hell, we all know how they hate to have their candy taken away from them. For some men they need the visual of lace bra, thongs, garter, stockings and heels, while for others plain nudity will work. One of the main problems is that ...

Remember when I stated that I was a member of a couple of dating sites...well guess what, over the past few weeks I've talked to and met a couple of really NICE men. I mean genuinely nice. Women are so quick to say that there aren't any nice men out there, but that has not been the case for me. I too used to say that, having only had experiences with men wanting only one thing from me it is hard to believe that some men really want to get to know a person before jumping their bones. Crude way of putting it, but if we as women are selective in our choices of men, why do we find it so hard to believe that men aren't as selective as we are. A friend told me that I "don't trust situations"...and at first I stood him down that he was wrong, but after I mulled the statement over in my mind I came to realize that he was correct. I DON'T TRUST SITUATIONS WITH MEN! I've never had to, because they have always held true to the fact that they couldn't be trust...

Sorry guys...I know its been a while since my last post, but I have been busy and rushed off of my feet. I am in the process of acclimating myself with my new job AND I am also trying to tie up the final chapters to my sophomore novel. However, let me catch you up to speed... In my last post I told everyone that I was going to my 20th High School Reunion and I had a blast. I was able to catch up with some old friends and to make some new ones. My class was/is majority white, there were only 7 blacks in attendance, but that did not matter. The only downside to my night, was the fact that it was not open bar. That's right, it was a cash bar and the tickets were $125/couple and it only came with one drink!!!! I was disturbed, but never fear, my old high school chums came through with the cash bar, I didn't have to go out of pocket. My new friend {He is a private person so I won't name him} was very debonair in his black suit and contrasting tie to match my black cocktail dress...

WOW! Hard to believe that on July 9th of this year I will be celebrating my 20th High School Reunion. I am so physched and geeked out on this, that its crazy. No its not, I'm excited to see old faces with new or not so new bodies...it should be a blast. Its going to be in Annapolis at the Sheraton and I am really looking forward to being there. The problem I have is that we are having a problem getting people to respond and/or cough up the dough. Now I am not independently wealthy, nor do I have the families that others have, but I find it hard to believe that they can't find the money for a memorable event such as this. Am I wrong for thinking this? Hell, we are damn near 40-years old---its time for people to get it together. I too have money issues, robbing peter to pay paul, but I budgeted my money so that I could attend this moment in my life.

Yes, that's right y'all, I am now amongst the land of the working class. As of July 11th I will be a member of an organization in Rockville, MD, thanks to one of my best friends. DEE! Yes, that's right, SassyScribe is working a full-time in addition to writing full time, and updating this site, full time... I'm so excited that I think the exploits of my new working day will make great food for fodder!