Wassup! I know it’s been a minute since my last blog…hell, I am even noticing that I am not writing as much as I used to. But I just wanted to briefly share the emotional ride that I began on January 16, 2007 This past week was an exciting week for me because of two reasons. The first reason is that my mother turned 70 on Saturday, January 17th, and my sisters (Carian, Judy, and Stacey), my brother (Billy), and my father (Sam) all threw her one hellacious surprise birthday party. It also reminded me that some of my cousins and some very dear friends have most recently lost their mother, which made having the party for my mother more poignant for us. We are thankful and blessed that God has given her to us thus far. We rented a banquet room at Snyder’s Willow Grove Restaurant, and 115 guests dined on filet mignon and broiled crab cakes. My cousin’s Sheila, Stanley, Curry, Lisa, Karen, Tink, and Craig commissioned a cake for my mother…it was a snow white owl sitting on a branch atop a mo...

25 Things About Me... 1. I am opinionated. 2. I am a loud talker. 3. I love to party. 4. I go through "Tink" withdrawals if I don't talk to her everyday. 5. My younger sister's lifestyle worries the hell out of me. 6. I am an incurable romantic. 7. I believe in love at first sight. 8. I am afraid of the dark. 9. I am afraid of dogs, snakes, and creepy crawley animals...oh yeah hell all repitilian species. 10. I can't stand a soft ass man. 11. Irresponsible parents piss me off. 12. Bad ass children piss me off. 13. I love to cuss and I cuss like a sailor at times. 14. I love spending time with my family. 15. I am an avid reader. 16. I love to write. 17. I am afraid of dying. 18. I drive fast and wish I could run people who cut me off, off the road without them coming to harm. 19. I love to cook. 20. I love to eat seafood. 21. I love spending other people's money. 22. I play my Nintendo DS everyday. 23. I got my name from my uncl...

Happy New Year…!!!! Amazing how long its been since I have blogged. I have really and truly been enjoying myself and taking time out for new friends and family members. The holiday season is my favorite time of year because everyone, despite the rough economic climate, was still filled with such joy! And that is what I truly truly love about this season. Although this is a new year, I still see and I am reading that people are still now willing and/or are unable to change. Why is it as this year moves into 2009 and we have a fabulous new President…our first African American President that woman are still relegating themselves as second best when it comes to men??!?!?! I cannot begin to tell you how sad it makes me…now I know the statistics that are out there: 44% will never marry Black women most uncoupled women on earth The older a woman gets the more likely she is to date/become involved with a married man Older women are more desperate There are not enough good men around To that I ...

A controversial new film exploring the relationship that women had with their fathers and how it affects their life and relationships with men is getting rave reviews...check out the trailer and leave your comments! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swClulOm-hU Sassy

Children are a true blessing...but when is enough enough? I am sure we all know people who for whatever reason continue to have children but this woman...Michelle Duggar, takes the cake. Her family are reality television stars of the show "17 Kids and Counting...", personally I have never watched the show, just because the mere thought of 17 kids is crazy enough, but for those family and friends of mine that have watched it find it amazing that there are no sibling rivalries or squabbles. I am one of 5, 4 girls and a 1 boy, and to this day we still have the "you get on my nerves" conversation, so to hear that they exemplify the "perfect" family boggles my mind... Another point is this...her body has to be tired! At some point when does her body say "no mas"...LOL...ladies help me out here, I am 41 and this woman is 42 and has been having babies for the last 20 years...TWENTY YEARS!!!!! The children range in age from 20 years-old to 1...and now ba...

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: SassyScribe Media Entertainment P.O. Box 232 Pasadena, MD 21123 sassyscribemediaent@yahoo.com WHO’S IN CHARGE: POWER IN RELATIONSHIPS? December 10, 2008, (Baltimore, MD): Sassy and Dlyte welcomes Audrey Eve Grider, author of the explosive best selling novel MESSAGES FROM A GODLY PLACE: Spiritual Insights for a Challenging World {ISBN-13: 978-0-981059-0-0} ( http://www.audreyeve.com/ ), on Thursday, December 11, 2008, for an in-depth discussion on Power In Relationships. “I created this novel with the intention to help people and provide them with a greater sense of well being.” “WSER Sassy Entertainment Radio™” is a hypnotically engaging interactive radio show streaming live each and every Thursday on your Internet airwaves at 9:00pm EST/6:00pm PST. Saundra E. Harris, an Award winning author, turned talk show host aptly called “SassyScribe”, and Dlyte dishes a saucy discussion designed to bridge the communication gap between the genders on dating, sex, and relati...

A while back I posted a blog entited "ARE WOMEN WHORES FOR MONEY"{ http://situationswithssassy.blogspot.com/2007/06/are-women-whores-for-money.html } ...I have to ask this question and just put it out there...is it okay for women to marry for money? I look at the BravoTV series of the Real Housewives of OC, NYC, and most recently ATL and I listen to this young 25yo woman say "at first when I met my husband I was not physically attracted to him, but then I realized he was sweet and very successful..." and I am sitting at home going WTF...I mean for real...don't tell me you didn't find his money attractive first then you began to actually like him...come on...then to have one of the other OC housewives state "I can see what she see's in him, he is a very successful and confident man..." man puhleaze...why won't the women just say it...its fun and good and easy to marry to for money...I won't castigate for saying that...because you are b...

You know...if there is one thing that I hope gets fixed not just in the Obama adminitration's, but just in general and that is the Welfare System in America. I say that because I don't believe that everyone on welfare really needs it...to be quite frank, I feel that the majority of them are working the system, because its easier than getting a job...hell, busting out baby-after-baby is a job...one that most of them can ill afford to have... The parent's ( I will use that term lightly ) are used to sitting home and collecting a check on the backs of the working poor...why not...it is easier and its the lesser of two evils...I mean who wants to work? Why work when the government will send out a stipend, supplement your rent, utilities, food, and in some cases even daycare...right, now why would a "stay at home mother" need a daycare voucher??? WAIT ...I MUST STOP AND SAY THIS because for those that know me, they know its no secret that I have never planned on being ...

Was your virginity worth losing...what are your thoughts? Do you or do you not regret your first experience...Your thoughts... ___________________ I actually thought about this question alot during my self imposed celibacy...it made me think about my own sexual history and it sparked the thoughts of regrets, fear, sadness, happiness, freakiness, wicked fun, monogomy, and at times blatant promiscuity...It allowed me to put sex in perspective...what it meant to me emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically...and you know the sad part is that there were a few doors I wanted to knock on and ask for my pussy back, but that was unfair, because I gave it away and I can put that down to youthful trangressions...but TODAY there are still alot of women trying to knock on doors asking for their pussy back. I mean at what age do we become more discerning about who we are going to phuck? When do we sit back and think about it...Men may not have this thought as much as women, but I am sure t...

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: SassyScribe Media Entertainment P.O. Box 232 Pasadena, MD 21123 sassyscribemediaent@yahoo.com THE DOWN LOW & COVER GIRLS November 10, 2008, (Baltimore, MD): Sassy and Dlyte welcomes Terrance Dean, author of the explosive best selling novel HIDING IN HIP HOP: On the Down Low in the Entertainment Industry –from Music to Hollywood {ISBN-13: 978-1416553397} ( http://www.terrancedean.blogspot.com/ ), on Thursday, November 13, 2008, for an in-depth discussion on DL Cover Girls. Discover the lengths that record companies, managers, and publicist will go to in securing “dates” for their high profile, yet “trapped in the closet” clients…you will be surprised. Sassy & Dlyte have their list ready…will you. Let’s compare notes on the DL Brothas in Hollywood… “WSER Sassy Entertainment Radio™” is a hypnotically engaging interactive radio show streaming live each and every Thursday on your Internet airwaves at 9:00pm EST/6:00pm PST. Saundra E. Harris, an Award winnin...

Today is an historical moment for the nation. I cannot say just for me or my family, although I will be celebrating with 4 generations tonight, I cannot begin to describe the series of emotions flowing through me. I have always voted from the time I turned 18 to now...and I have to say that this is the most defining moment in my life! I watched as my my mother and father, both in their 70's vote...my mother with tears in her eyes and to be honest, my father got mistyeyed as well...it was amazing to see the number of African American's standing in line today...A LINE!!! I have never stood in a line to vote ever, and this morning I stood in line for an hour, which I know isn't long compared to some areas, but for our area here, which is traditionally a RED county although Maryland is a blue state, I was amazed and elated. My heart soared seeing these people standing in line...neighbors talking, and strangers embracing one another all of us with this look of hope and a burning...

Always Say What You Mean Always be open and honest about your wants, needs, and desires. This is not solely regarding your personal life, but this comes into play with all aspects of your life. Only you know that which you want. Only you know what you can and cannot tolerate in people. This transcends male to female relationships and tunnels its way through and into all of your relationships. It can show that you are not only a strong individual, and not strong in the negative sense as society has come to view "strong" women. I am talking about Strong in the positive sense that it shows that you are an individual that stands by their word. In today's world of dating being honest about YOU as only YOU can tell it will show a person that at times, one can be convicted by their principles, loyalty and love of themselves. I am a firm believer in women being clear when they speak to men. The need for clarification is vital in today's dating world. They have to sa...

Read the story below...and then tell yourselves, oral sex is harmless...I keep telling folks everything isn't meant to go in your mouth...and here is the other point...if you won't allow a man to penetrate you vaginally/anally raw, why allow a raw penis in your mouth? I mean if you won't Phuck it raw, why Suck it raw...JMO... ------------------------------------ Doctors Say There Is a Link Between Oral Sex and Throat Cancer By CATHY BECKER Oct. 15, 2008 — Teresa Dillon was surprised to learn four years ago that what she deemed as an average sore throat actually was stage 2 cancer on her tonsil. "People think the face of oral cancer is a 70-year-old man who's been chewing tobacco and drinking whiskey all his life," she said. "But the face of oral cancer now is  it's me, a young woman, healthy, nonsmoking, fit." But what really shocked the waitress and then 38-year-old was that the human papillomavirus may have caused her illness, a illness that i...

This posting stemmed from a discussion about a man who spent a beautiful weekend with his wife and just the way in which he described the weekend prompted the women on the board to state how lucky his wife is to have a loving, caring, and attentive brother such as GRUMPY...it was so on point, that I asked him if I could post it on my blogs...and his response was "if it helps one woman to make the right decision, then hell yeah, post on!" Here is his response for women...please take heed... ___________________________________________ I would say to the women who claim they want that: WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO ACHIEVE THAT? Meaning, what kind of man are you dealing with? Under what circumstances are you with him? If it's because he's all you think you can get or because he's the baby daddy or because he's brainwashed you into thinking that 'ain't nobody else gonna want you' or anything like that, then you won't get that. Women are like a dealer in a ...

When it comes to shrewdness, manipulation, and political moves, the GOP & the Republican Party wins it hands down! As much as I abhor having to give them credit for anything…I have to give them credit for always being able to pull a rabbit out of their hats and convince the dumb, stupid, ignorant and uninformed American that you can do/be whatever you want so long as you lie, cheat, and steal to do it… because “hey…its okay!” I mean after all, the United States of America was founded by lying, stealing, cheating, and pillaging the first settlers, so why would it not be okay for this mindset to continue hundreds of years late? On Wednesday, Senator John McCain, the Presidential Candidate representing the Republican party took part in what many are calling Karl Rovian tactics. His rash decision to suspend his Presidential campaign is nothing more than political gaming at its best. Why is it, that people do not see it for what this is…his numbers were slipping in the poles and he need...

I received this from a good friend of mine, a future leader and philosopher of LIFE...please read and leave your comments...tune into WSER Sassy Entertainment Radio on Thursday, Sept. 25th @ 9PM EST...you can subscribe to the show by clicking on the RSS tab above... Greetings Friends and Family, These days it seems that the word "change" is continuosly being used in catch phrases. The question is, what is it that is going to bring about true change. Change is something that starts in the individual. It is something that must come from the inside and then work itself out. Each and everyone of us has something that we can do to bring about change in our surroundings and our daily lives. If we wait on "a leader" or one individual to bring about changes on our behalf , it is not going to happen. Everyone makes a difference, every little bit helps, and that's where working as a colliective and unity plays its part. We must begin to think for ourselves and pay attenti...

I know that this is a forum for love and relationships, but as a certified Obamacan when I received this email from a friend I just had to ask him if he would consider it for my blog. He said yes...so I introduce to you Guest Blogger YALE T. BEVERLY... _________________________ Good afternoon friends, Look, I am tired of all of this rhetoric around the election and comparing Sarah Palin to candidate Obama!! America is being fooled and hood winked and it is insulting to me and anyone who is free thinking and intelligent. Stop being led to the slaughter!! Here are straight facts, without preaching or embellishment. You can check them yourselves if you have a mind to find the “truth” and deal with the consequences!! Sarah Palin, by many accounts is a fair and decent governor for the state of Alaska; but she has only held office for less than 2 years. Comparing Palin to Obama is ridiculous, she is UP FOR Vice President, he is RUNNING for and has been nominated to be, President. She has...

Baltimore is rich with culture and the discovery of new and exciting places is always fun! I had the pleasure of enjoying one such spot recently and although a little pricey for food and drinks it is the atmosphere that I go for...atmosphere is that which I seek, especially when I am on a people watching jaunt. This particular night was no different when it came to sitting back, sipping on my Tuaca (glass chilled w/lemon and lime) as I perused the mixed crowd of thirty and forty something's eagerly trying to catch the eye for "the one". What I noticed most especially is the way in which some of the women were dressed and yet I watched how disturbed they became because their dress garnered the wrong attention from men. One young lady in particular who I have to admit was ROCKING her outfit, at first walked in with much confidence and as the eyes of the men caressed her body in albiet open admiration, I witnessed through the night that she was not feeling the attention. Let...

Fall is almost here! And ladies this means that men are about to make their choice picks for hibernation. Yes, that is right…the weather is changing and they are about to choose a couple of cuddle buddies… Ladies its all about the booty…brothers are going to be coming out of the woodwork. Men you haven’t heard from in months and in some cases years, will begin to call, text, and or email you. You are going to wonder what it is they want, but if you understand the habits and watch the behaviors that some men exude then this phase and/or aspect of their character should be nothing new… Brothers are about to get their stable in order. They have to get their pipeline thick for the winter months and for that to happen they have to contact a rack of phillies to choose from. See the key is to have a good amount to choose from that way when it gets cold, they will know where to go and/or who to call to get warm. Yes, for some this may sound shallow, but for some kats it is all about sex…gettin...

Always Say What You Mean Always be open and honest about your wants, needs, and desires. This is not solely regarding your personal life, but this comes into play with all aspects of your life. Only you know that which you want. Only you know what you can and cannot tolerate in people. This transcends male to female relationships and tunnels its way through and into all of your relationships. It can show that you are not only a strong individual, and not strong in the negative sense as society has come to view “strong” women. I am talking about Strong in the positive sense that it shows that you are an individual that stands by their word. In today’s world of dating being honest about YOU as only YOU can tell it will show a person that at times, one can be convicted by their principles, loyalty and love of themselves. I am a firm believer in women being clear when they speak to men. The need for clarification is vital in today’s dating world. They have to say what it is they mean from ...