Over the last few months I've come to realise that many people {ie. men and women}, don't understand the concept of dating. Dating is not an exclusive contract between two people, dating is an act of an attempt to turn an aquaintance into a friend, that will hopefully lead to something more...a mutually exclusive agreement. I recently went on a date with a gentleman, whom I liked, but after he found out that I was continuing to date and/or meet new people, he became offended and said that he couldn't deal with me because I wasn't honest with him. He didn't understand how I could say that I liked him yet, continued to see other people. I explained to him that I did like him, that I could see myself dating him BUT, we had went out once. Before we went out his phone calls were frequent, after we went out...they were infrequent, when I pointed this out to him he said he was busy. He didn't answer my calls until two - three days later. Now maybe I'm stupid, but I...

Dating Saga continues... WOW! Since my last few posts I have been out on several dates...and I've talked to alot of people...hmmph...the funny thing is...no one is really quite measuring up. When I say that, I mean on paper {i.e. online, as stated in their profiles, via online chats and emails} they sound great. But in person, I seem to get the same ole same ole... Is it me...or is it that people are having problems being honest and telling the truth? I am brutally honest, sometimes too honest, too open, too upfront about myself, my likes, and dislikes. What I'm willing and not willing to put up with, and I expect the same. Yes, this post may be redundant for some, but for me, I have to get this off my chest and let the brothers know...hell, I need to ask them...what the hell is up??? If its something about me---tell me...I can accept honesty and I can handle hearing the truth. It is getting to the point where I have actually cancelled my service with those dating sites. Hell, ...

Have you ever been listening to the radio and song pops up that catapults you back in time. It takes you to a place where you used to be, with the person that you used to love, honor, and cherish. I had this happen to me this weekend...Jill Scott's "Your Just Running 'Cross My Mind". I listened to this song by Jill Scott and for the last few days, thoughts of my ex have been popping up at the oddest times. Now this is something that I absolutely hate to admit...but it is true! When listening to this song, this phrase he used to say to me "I'm in your mind Ida Mae" never held truth until I heard this song...and truthfully he is in my mind- to a degree. He is in my mind because as much as I hate to admit it, the brother has so much personality and charisma, that its unbelievable. He had me lock, stock, and barrel, and if he were to read this he wouldn't believe it as being so, but it was true. I don't miss his arrogance at all...I do miss our conve...

I took the test and guess what---I scored 409...I am too damned freaky for most! Isn't that special! LOL I answered those questions honestly and I hope everyone does...you can remain anonymous, but as this is my blog, and I'm all for keeping it real...that is why I posted my score. So take five minutes out of your day, take the test and leave a comment. I'm interested in what you have to say... Peace SassyScribe

1) IF YOU HAD A CHOICE HOW OFTEN WOULD YOU HAVE SEX_________ A. AS OFTEN AS EVERY DAY AND ALL DAY AND ALL NIGHT B. A FEW TIMES A WEEK C. JUST A FEW TIMES A MONTH TO KEEP FROM FEINDING D. NOT TO OFTEN I HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO A-10 B-5 C-3 D-1 (2) DO YOU MASTURBATE________________ A. YES B. I'VE DONE IT, BUT NOT MY THING C. NO A-15PTS B-5PTS C-1PTS (3) HAVE YOU EVER MASTURBATED 4 YOUR PARTNER WHILE THEY SAT AND WATCHED______________ A. YES B. THOUGHT ABOUT IT C. NOA-10PTS B-5PTS C-1PT (4) HAVE YOU EVER WANTED TO WATCH YOUR PARTNER MASTURBATE____________ A.YES B.THOUGHT ABOUT IT C.NO A-10PTS B-5PTS C-1PT (5) HAVE YOU EVER HAD A PARTNER MASTURBATE FOR YOU WHILE YOU SAT AND WATCHED_______________ A.YES B.NO, BUT INTERESTED C.NO A-10PTS B-5PTS C-1PT (6) DO YOU LIKE TO RECEIVE ORAL SEX____________ A. YES B. YES, BUT NOT TO OFTEN C. NEVER TRIED BUT VERY CURIOUS D. NO A-10PTS B-3PTS C-5PTS D-1PT (7) WHEN YOUR PARTNER GOES DOWN ON YOU, AND YOU ARE ABOUT TO CUM DO YOU WANT HIM OR HER TO____...